I admitted it was tempting to wish for cosmic, mind-blowing, I-could-die-right-now orgasms, but the truth is, sometimes we do have to settle for light, that-was-fun type, and explore additional features. Ian made me feel good. Sexy. Powerful. Wasn't that what was sex really about? Or was I just fooling myself? Gina Wings
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As someone with bipolar disorder, I know all too well the shame of not having the capacity to feel pleasure during sex. I know what it is like to be ashamed of myself for not being able to orgasm or for not feeling good during sex. I also know that the shame only grows when you don’t want to admit that you can’t enjoy sex with your partner. The truth is that orgasms are not the most important thing in life.

What is most important is connecting with someone, learning about them and loving them. Feelings should always come before an orgasm, because then your partner will never have to worry about you being ashamed of yourself or if you can satisfy them enough during sex to have a good time.

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